Things you regret or will regret
2012-05-15
This is going to be a long post about nothing, or it's about regreting. So if you don't want to read my thoughts skip this!
Im suppoused to write an essay about things you will regret at your deathbed. According to many sources persons at their deathbed regret big things, such as why didn't they work less or live a more happy life. Why did they break the contact with their best friend or merry an alcoholist. At this point of life you don't even remember the annoying boss, or that bitch who talked shit about you. You just regret that you didn't live the life you now would have wanted.
But will we ever be pleased with the life we lived, or are living right now?
When your young, you regret stuff like why didn't I talk to my crush or why did I talk to him/her? Why did I write that comment or ever wear that piece of clothing. Things like that aren't life changing (well they can be, but usually not), and when your older you won't even remember them.
Of course I have things that I regret, similar to the ones I've said. I actually regret alot, but the most I've forgot at this point. It's right to regret things and you should. When you regret you show feelings and that you really cared about something/someone. But never regret too long, it's not healthy and you don't feel well. Regreting show as well compassion and sorrow. You should regret the bad things you done, but never regret something that ones made you smile. Cause at that moment it seemed like the best idea ever.
And the question is, do we regret more things we did or didn't do?
For myself I have to say I regret more things that I haven't done. Alot of things could have been different if I just would have the courage to do some of them. I regret of course things that I've done, but it's usually bad things. Like screaming to my parents or saying something bad to someone. That kind of stuff I regret doing. But as I said earlier:
Don't ever regret something that ones made you smile. Cause at the moment it seemed like the best idea ever.
Otherwise I think people regret more things that they haven't done. It's easier to regret stuff like that. It's hard to regret someting that you have done, cause your basically saying to your self that you failed. And which person would like to feel like that often.
Im suppoused to write an essay about things you will regret at your deathbed. According to many sources persons at their deathbed regret big things, such as why didn't they work less or live a more happy life. Why did they break the contact with their best friend or merry an alcoholist. At this point of life you don't even remember the annoying boss, or that bitch who talked shit about you. You just regret that you didn't live the life you now would have wanted.
But will we ever be pleased with the life we lived, or are living right now?
When your young, you regret stuff like why didn't I talk to my crush or why did I talk to him/her? Why did I write that comment or ever wear that piece of clothing. Things like that aren't life changing (well they can be, but usually not), and when your older you won't even remember them.
Of course I have things that I regret, similar to the ones I've said. I actually regret alot, but the most I've forgot at this point. It's right to regret things and you should. When you regret you show feelings and that you really cared about something/someone. But never regret too long, it's not healthy and you don't feel well. Regreting show as well compassion and sorrow. You should regret the bad things you done, but never regret something that ones made you smile. Cause at that moment it seemed like the best idea ever.
And the question is, do we regret more things we did or didn't do?
For myself I have to say I regret more things that I haven't done. Alot of things could have been different if I just would have the courage to do some of them. I regret of course things that I've done, but it's usually bad things. Like screaming to my parents or saying something bad to someone. That kind of stuff I regret doing. But as I said earlier:
Don't ever regret something that ones made you smile. Cause at the moment it seemed like the best idea ever.
Otherwise I think people regret more things that they haven't done. It's easier to regret stuff like that. It's hard to regret someting that you have done, cause your basically saying to your self that you failed. And which person would like to feel like that often.
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you have nice thoughts and extraordinary english. I honestly wish i'd be more like you after i've read this text. U are wonderful :)
Answer: Ahh! Thank you so much :)
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